SUGAR DADDIE

I personally recommend that you begin your search for Sugar Daddie online. There are a couple of websites that cater for Sugar Daddie dating but most appear to be US based. The one that covers the UK is Sugardaddie.com. . But before you even log in you need to decide what you are looking for. A guy with money is bloody fantastic, BUT, understand the path you are about to walk. I’d first like you to consider the the following points:

1) Are looks important to you
2) Is body type important
3) Is personality important

The reason that I ask is really to prompt you to think of dating as SD as THE SAME AS dating any other guy. Sure, they may be older, but this is NOT prostitution. Dating and sleeping with a guy who you are not attracted to in any sense just becasue he gives you money is perhaps not the ideal situation. And in reality, being with someone just for money, in the end, shows. Some guys are not bright, but men who have been successful financially are quite clever in working out what the motives are. For sure there is a dynamic…he wants young and attractive, you want rich and mature. But there still has to be more than that. Remember, if he has money, just as you can find someone else. So can he.

Getting Your Online Profile Together
First of all you need a good set of photos. It’s better to have just photos of you. Don’t get ones of you and your ex with him chopped out of the picture. Avoid, party shots. Ideally you want to convey beauty and class within the picture. You can be a little sexy but avoid photos that may give the impression you are one to be had and discarded.

Next choose a profile name. It helps if you use one that says a little about you….something light BrighEyes or YoungAndFun.

Next write something about yourself and who you are looking for. Do not write ” I am super hot and sexy and I’m looking for a hot older guy to pay my bills”.!!!???? Stay very subtle. By being on the site you have already stated you are looking for a rich older man. Say only enough to create a little intrigue. Also state the personality attributes you are looking for in him.

I also suggest that when you get online that you do not wait to be contacted. Be proactive, make first contact. There are plenty of pretty women online and so it is up to you to stand out amongst the crowd. You don’t need to be overly keen, just let them know you are there.

Always arrange to meet your online contacts in a safe place. Make sure to tell a friend where you are going, or even have a friend tag along so they can keep a watch on what goes on (undercover style!). Some men will try and fake wealth. You can spot them a mile away.

Do not be in a hurry to sleep with him. Take your time but don’t use sex as a tool to barter for money. Let him demonstrate his wealth.

Ok, that’s all for now. I hope this helps you somewhat!

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Once you have decided that you want to date an older guy with money, then comes the task of finding one that you like. I’ve put together my personal list of the top 3 ways.

• Bars/Clubs: Just going to regular bars and clubs will not get you what you are looking for. You have to target wealthier areas where the over 30’s crowds gather. I live down near the sea and there is one venue nearby that is also the local boat club. Many of the patrons have large boat docked there. I’d suggest it’s better to stay away from over 30’s nightclubs as they tend to attract the wrong type.
• Meeting Socially: I think that meeting socially is probably the best way that you can meet any man in a romantic way. Unfortunately, if you do not know anyone within wealthy social circles this one can be a tough one to get started with.
• Online Dating: This is probably one of the most time efficient ways to find the right guy. Sadly there are not many websites that cater for the rich older guy and the younger women. If you use regular dating sites then you chances of targeting wealthy men is reduced as you cannot be sure which guys have money and which don’t. My personal favorite is sugardaddie.com. It is packed with rich older men looking for younger women

My view is that if you are serious then you shoul use a combination of all 3. Make sure that you don’t over think what you are doing and that you enjoy the whole process.

In my next article I will talk about the do’s and don’ts of dating Sugar Daddies.

Life can be incredibly kind to the older man. Most guys who are over have had the opportunity to really grow and excel. I thought I’d put together a list of things that I think make older guys attractive to us younger women:

1) They have money – I guess number 1 would have to be that older men have progressed in their careers and tend to be more financially stable. Men seem to hit their career prime in their early to late 30’s and as such have a lot more money. They also tend to be very generous with money as they discover the joys of having more cash to burn.

2) They are men – Older men just love younger women and they understand what it is to be a man. No playing with the PlayStation for hours or passing wind for laughs. They have had plenty of time to step out from the shadow of their mothers and are very resourceful and independent. They tend to have established hobbies (which tend to involve rather expensive toys)

3) They are experienced – Older men are also more experienced with sex and generally know how to please a woman in the bedroom. Older guys have good stamina and are able to control themselves long enough to make things extremely enjoyable. They tend to be generous lovers and have a very good understanding of our bodies

4) Older men just love to spoil younger women!

There are a few things that you must understand when dating sugar daddies however:

1) They may have children. This means that they may not be able to dedicate all of their time to you. This though can be a good thing as it gives you some space and your own time to shop!

2) If they have children then chances are then they have an ex wife, and that you will be considerably younger than she is. This subject is a whole book by itself…

3) If he is very very wealthy then there will be competition for his attention.

At the end of the day you have to weigh up the pros and the cons of dating each individual guy. As with all relationships they have their ups and downs, but overall I’d say there are more positives than negatives.